Students Against Violence and what causes bullying
Bullying has been an ancient problem in our schools for quite some time. It is said to be often caused by social factors. Bullying is the act of purposely harming or
threatening to harm another person through physical or emotion abuse. Bullying can occur at any location and at any age. Unlike the past where the perceived notion of
bullying was restricted to the playground people realize that bullying can occur almost anywhere. It can take place at work home school or online. When writing a
bullying essay you can define the types of abuse that occur when the act of bullying is carried out. For instance some common acts that qualify as bullying include:
false gossip name calling physical abuse verbal abuse emotional abuse and threats if the victim does not do what is being asked
We learn from the NHS website teens for health (2008) that anyone can be singled out bybullies. The NSPCC found that 31 per cent of children had been bullied at
some point (Teensfor health 2008). This being the case can anyone be bullied? Black and Jackson (2007) have put forward that there lies an imbalance of power
between the parties involved in bullying.The bully is stronger through social status physical power age cognitive abilities or skill. Isthis imbalance of power
the same across the genders? There is an extensive body of literaturethat suggests that boys are more likely than girls to be bullies as well as victims (Nansel et
al.2001; Boulton& Smith 1994; Boulton& Underwood1992 cited in Marsh Parada Craven &Finger 2004). This doesnt mean girls cannot be bullies. Stephenson and Smith
(1989 cited inKumpulainen et al. 1998) found that girls as well as boys fitted into the five main groups of people involved in bullying. These are: dominating
bullies anxious bullies bully-victimsclassical victims and provocative victims. These traits were also found by SouranderHelstel Helenius and Piha (2000) to
have clinical implications. Sourander et al.(2000) notedthat Bullying is especially associated with aggressive and antisocial behavior whilevictimization is
associated with internalizing problems. Whitney and Smith (1989 cited inKumpulainen et al. 1998) found bullies to be more prone to have criminal convictions later
inlife and more likely to be involved in serious recidivist crime. Are criminal convections later inlife a fair punishment for their actions? Or should something be
done to help the bully?
Physical bullying includes any physical contact that would hurt or injure a person like hitting kicking punching etc. Taking something that belongs to someone else
and destroying it would also be considered a type of physical bullying. In elementary and middle schools 30.5 percent of all bullying is physical bullying. Hitting
pushing kicking slapping spitting stealing and destroying others properties are all different forms of physical bullying. Physical bullying may also be taken to
the next step and cross the line of sexual harassment. Bullying is most common at the middle school and high school age but can also occur in childhood and adulthood.
Verbal is another form of bullying that is well known in the schools especially elementary schools. Verbal bullying can be very hurtful to a child. Verbal can include
name calling teasing intimidation and racial remarks.
Cyber bullying can also be hurtful. We live in the age of Facebook and Twitter where everything is public and nothing is off-limits. In recent years there has been in
increase in school shootings and suicides that can all be traced back to cyber bullying. Cyber bullying can be defined as bullying that occurs over the internet
through email a social media site etc. This type of bullying is increasing mostly due to the fact that there is a certain amount of anonymity that is involved in
working on the internet. Strangers can say anything to one another without fear of physical confrontation. While this type of bullying is increasing how we can prevent
it is not.
We have many parents that do not even realize their child bully other children. According to the U.S. Census Bureau
Out of 12.2 million single parent families in 2012 more than 80% were headed by single mothers. Six out of ten children who live with only their mother are living
near or below the poverty line. Living in poverty is stressful and can have many emotional effects on children including low self-esteem increased anger and
frustration and an increased risk for violent behavior. Besides financial constraints other emotional effects of growing up in a single parent household may include
feelings of abandonment sadness loneliness and difficulty socializing and connecting with others. Many times children will bully other children because of anger.
Parents need to make sure their child understand that bullying is serious and that it will not be tolerated. Try to set up some simple rules for family interactions.
Whenever your child follows the rules praise him or her. If your child breaks the rules consistently enforce some kind of negative consequence (for example the
withholding of allowance or other benefits/privileges). Spend 15 minutes or more of quality time with your child every day. Gain thorough knowledge into who he or she
is spending time with and what they are doing. It is easier for children or young people to change their aggressive behavior if they feel they are reasonably well
liked and listened to by their parents/caregivers. Help your child use his or her energy and need to dominate in a more positive way for example by encouraging him
or her to participate in a sport like basketball or soccer in which one must play by the rules. Explore any particular talents your child may have that can be further
developed to enhance his or her self-esteem.
Bullying can have many effects on a child.Approximately 160000 children a day stay home from school because they are afraid of being bullied. US Department of
Education Thats over 3 million students a month. A national survey of kids in grades 6-10 found 13 percent reported bullying others 11 percent reported being the
target of bullies and another 6 percent said that they bullied others and were bullied themselves. Experts say the facts are troubling because bullying too often
leads to violence loss of self-esteem poor grades depression and even suicide. Source: National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center Suicideamong young
people continues to be a serious problem. According to the CDC suicide is the third leading cause of death of youth between the ages of 10 and 24. It results in
approximately 4400 lives lost each year. Deaths from youth suicide are only part of the problem. More young people survive suicide attempts than actually die. A
nationwide survey of youth in grades 9-12 in public and private schools in the United States (U.S.) found that 15% of students reported seriously considering suicide
11% reported creating a plan and 7% reporting trying to take their own life in the 12 months preceding the survey. Each year approximately 149000 youth between the
ages of 10 and 24 receive medical care for self-inflicted injuries at Emergency Departments across the U.S.
Bullying in schools is not a problem that can be solved once and for all. Therefore schools should maintain constant readiness to counteract any tendencies toward
bullying in the school environment. This can best be achieved by having a good bullying prevention program as a standard element in the school environment. Although
there are other anti-bullying programs available the most noted program is the one developed in Norway by Dr. Dan Olweus at the University of Bergen.
The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program has been used and evaluated in large-scale studies with quite positive results in several countries including the United
States and it has a strong research base.
What helps make the Olweus program a model is that it builds on a few key principles that have been found to be important in research on the development and
modification of problem behavior especially aggressive behavior like bullying. First it is important to create both a school and home environment characterized by
warmth positive interest and involvement with adults. Second firm limits against unacceptable behavior need to be established. Third non-physical non-hostile
negative consequences (sanctions) must be applied if a youth breaks the rules that have been agreed upon and it is expected that the adults in the school and at home
act as authorities at least in some respects. The program is based on an authoritative (not authoritarian) model for the relationship between adults and children
where teachers are expected to be authorities with responsibility for the students total situation not just their learning. Teachers and parents must get actively
involved. This means that the adults must take responsibility for controlling what is going on among the students in the school at least to a certain extent. One
aspect of this is organizing good supervision of break times. Furthermore teachers are encouraged to intervene in situations that arouse suspicion and to give a clear
message to the students: We will not accept bullying in our school and we will make sure its stopped. Teachers should initiate serious discussions with victims of
bullying bullies and their parents if a problem has been identified or is suspected. Parents and teachers must closely follow up and monitor the measures taken.
There may not be away to totally stop bullying but there can be measures used to control it.
Students Against Violence and what causes bullying